What I am led to share with you today came through me during a coaching session with a client recently. Although the words below are directed to healers, the concept applies to everyone. In any contact you have with others, personal or business, you are only responsible for you. You are responsible for the energy you allow to flow through you to that other person, but you are not responsible for how they receive it. If you send out information in love, such as giving a compliment, and it is rebuffed by the other person, it is their choice to block that loving energy. As long as you are sending out your energy—in conversation, in coaching, in healing, in any action—in love you are doing all you are asked to do. Blaming yourself and making yourself responsible for the other person’s choices serves no one.

Even though the paragraph below is directed to healers, think about the many ways it can be relevant to you.

You are a gifted healer and the energy flows through you to whatever the client is calling through. Whether you feel it or they feel it in the moment is really irrelevant. We’ve come to expect certain feelings or signs during a healing session, and if XYZ didn’t happen then we think it didn’t work. Let’s let go of that. Say to the client at the start of the session: “ In this session I am just an open channel. I am opening to Spirit and allowing whatever YOU are calling through to flow through me. So whether we feel something or we don’t , we just trust the process that Spirit is doing exactly what your Higher Self is asking for. We will just be blessed and grateful for the experience and let go of any expectations from past experience. Understanding and accepting this is how you will get the most out of your session with me.” This frees the energy up Spirit to work through and for both of you.